Try some apple trees. They’ve been magnificently drought tolerant for me. I completely forgot to water my apple seedlings – which were only two months old at the time – for about six weeks in the early summer, and they looked fine. They hadn’t grown at all during that time, but they were amiably hanging on. I started watering them a little bit every two weeks or so after that. They’ve shown no signs of stress at all.
I’ve heard good things about pomegranate and fig drought tolerance, as well. My experience with figs so far is that they’re pretty good at surviving droughts, but they won’t fruit unless I water them well. I’m not sure yet if this is also true of apples; it may be. It’s probably true of peaches, but my peach trees keep giving me fruit anyway; they just happen to be half the size they should be. Absolutely delicious flavor, though.
Jerusalem artichokes are fantastic. I’m trying to remember to water mine once a week, because I’m pretty sure they’ll produce more of a harvest that way, but I’ll be honest – I keep forgetting. They’ve gone three weeks without water at least twice this summer now. They lost a few leaves at the bottom, which went brown and withered away, and they didn’t grow much, but the top three-quarters looked perfectly fine, and when I remembered to water them again, they happily put forth more leaves at the top and started growing again.
If you want ornamental that aren’t edible, daffodils and star of Bethlehem need no watering in a summer-dry, winter-wet climate. They flower in early spring and then completely disappear for the summer. Bearded irises also need no watering in summer, and they’re evergreen, with beautiful flowers in late spring and attractive leaves all year round.
Tulip (flowers in April) and hardneck garlic (flowers in June) need no water at all in my winter-wet, summer-dry climate. They’re ornamental and edible and taste good.
Sorghum sometimes grows wild here.
Rye often grows in wild spaces here. Like, a lot. It’s by a lot of the freeway, just growing merrily as a weed through the winter.
Echinecea’s super drought tolerant, and it’s a perennial. It might be just fine if you set it and forget it. It’s grown as an ornamental in a lot of unirrigated spaces here.
If you pull out all the prickly lettuce (which is a VERY common summer weed in my climate, and it needs no water), you might be able to start a landrace of domesticated lettuce. Pull out the prickly lettuce plants so they won’t be able to pollinate your tasty, thornless plants. I have four domesticated lettuce plants making seeds right now, two of which have had tiny bits of water when I got around to it, and two of which have gotten no water at all. There are a few more in my neighbor’s yard, where she let a lettuce go to seed last year. Since they’re the same species as prickly lettuce, which is an obnoxious drought-tolerant weed here, it’s not very surprising that they’re able to handle making seeds in midsummer without water here. (Obviously, they taste a whole lot better if you eat them in the winter.)
I live in Utah, zone 7b. If you’re in zone 7a, you may not be able to handle everything I can grow, but it may be close!
If you’re looking for survivors that can handle total neglect for the next three years, I’d probably stick with perennials: plant a bunch of fruit tree seeds (peaches and apple would probably be great; any other stonefruits or pomes that strike your fancy might work; juneberries and hackberries grow wild in the mountains here, so they may be drought tolerant, too), and any perennials that actively grow during the winter and go dormant for the summer, such as garlic and tulips. They should still be alive when you get back, and be in bigger clumps that you can start harvesting from if you want to.
If you’re looking for survivors that can handle only being watered once a month, that’s even easier. Anything I’ve mentioned here would probably be fine, especially if you mulch deeply in wood chips and water very deeply during that once a month watering.
Squashes, melons, and watermelons may, in theory, be able to handle it, too. I haven’t found one yet that will be that drought tolerant for me, but they can often handle one week without any water, and occasionally two. Zucchinis and Israeli melons can handle three, just barely, but expect diminished harvests.
My seeds from both my spaghetti zucchinis (the descendents of Black Beauty zucchinis and spaghetti squashes) and my Israeli melons (self-pollinated, as that variety was my one and only melon survivor in both 2022 and 20223) went into the Going to Seed mixes in 2022 and 2023, so if you have either of those, you may have some of my seeds.